Too many captains, not enough soldiers

Isn't that the saying? That's totally what it's like when you're pregnant and have a toddler, only in the reverse ... too many soldiers, no captains. It's like we both want to throw fits, we both lose our patience, we both need things to go our way absolutely all of the time -- only there's just enough time and energy for one person to actually indulge in all those things. And guess who it is most of the time. Yeah, not I. *sigh* I'm so "done" with trying to find new things for Vaughn to eat, with trying to entertain her, with keeping her happy. All I want to do is lie down when I'm tired, eat when I'm hungry (can't do this because if she refused her snack then it's just not worth it to go through the turmoil and lack of comprehension regarding why Mommy is eating and she isn't) and do a crossword puzzle when I feel like exercising my brain. The only way I'm able to post right now is that I put in a DVD for her. And God, what has this world come to that I think that is a reasonable option? And where's the peach cobbler?